SClarke

Level 3- Extreme Anger-

The author offers 42 strategies for reaching extremely angry children. The following strategies were the one's I, again, found most pratical and easily implemented in the classroom setting:

1.  Sublimation-  Angry children need positive ways to use their energy.  Try not to take away playtime.  Get them walking, jogging, lifting boxes, carrying books, dancing or running errands.  Physical activities can reduce anger outburst.

2.  I Get to Pick the Consequences? Let angry chldren determine the consequences of his/her behavior.  Have the consequence options written down ahead of time.  This is a step to helping him become more responsible for his anger.

3.  Talk Lower and Lower- When encountering an angry chi ld, you may have to raise your voice to get her attention.  However, as you continue to talk, keep lowering your voice.  This acts as a calming device.

4.  Good Neighbors- "Tell me who you walk with, and I'll tell you who you are."  If the angry child sits with other angry children, he will remain an angry child.  Instead, sit him near postive peers and he has a better chance of improving.

5. Getting in the Last Word-  Next time you are in a heated discussion and you reach the point when you feel things are getting out of control, give the child your permission to get in the last word.  Often, this catches the angry child by surprise and it takes the air out of her balloon.  Make sure you keep your word and not respond to their last word.   You are still in control because you granted her permission to get the last word in.

6.  The Eyes say Help-  This is interesting!  If you ever come upon 2 students who are starting to fight, most of the time one of the students does not really want to fight.  Once you make your presence know, look for the student who looks at you.  The one who gives you eye contact is usually the one who doesn't want to battle.  Rescue him!  If neither look at you, call for help immediately!